All events at Nexus are dry – no alcohol allowed.

You must talk to Amelia Roslyn before doing partial or full suspension, including from the columns/hashira, at Nexus.  We will ensure you are familiar with the equipment, and have sufficient knowledge and experience for us to be happy with you suspending.

During events such as Intention where full nudity is allowed, keep your genitals off the furniture and rugs!

No open drinks containers in the tying areas – bottles and cups you can seal are fine (and do seal when not drinking), open cups and cans must not be taken beyond the social area. 

Do not wear outdoor shoes in the studio.  We have shoe racks outside the studio, where you can leave shoes (at your own risk) as well as storage shelving.  You might want to bring thick socks or slippers to wear in the venue.  

Do not wear or use anything on the mats that could cause damage, such as clothing with metal buttons, sharp jewelry etc.

We provide tea, coffee, squash and water but you need to bring your own drink container.  We don’t have mains water in the studio, so please fill your bottle before you arrive if possible, though bottled water is available.

Please respect the other businesses and their users in the vicinity of the studio – you must be dressed vanilla appropriate when you step outside of the Nexus studio, and this includes when visiting the shared toilets.   

Noisy play is not allowed, both for the comfort of those in the venue but also for those outside.  This includes spanking, screaming, shrieking and more.   If in doubt, ask before you play.

Consent is required for all forms of touch, including rope application, adjustments, hugs and any form of physical contact.  You also should not touch anyone’s rope or equipment without consent.

All interactions must be consensual and risk aware.  Make sure you understand the risks of the play you are consenting to, and that everyone in the scene knows the basis of consent – opt in, opt out, etc.  Some events at Nexus allow a broader range of play than just rope, so ensure you have sufficiently comprehensive consent for the scene you are planning. By default play at Nexus should use an Opt-In consent model where “No” means no, and “Red” is a universal safe word. This means only activities that you have specifically negotiated for/consent to will take place in the scene. Any other consent model must have been explicitly consented to by all involved. 

Rope bottoms have the right to set boundaries, say no, and withdraw consent at any time, for any reason. Tops must respect these boundaries unconditionally.  If you are planning to do a scene that involves consensual non-consent and expect to be playing through “No” and fights/protests, please discuss this with the organisers in advance and make sure it is an event that is suitable.  Even in this case, “Red” must still end the scene. 

All attendees are responsible for their own physical and emotional well-being. Participate within your abilities and comfort level. Educate yourself on the risks involved in rope bondage. Rope can be dangerous and cause injury even with experienced practitioners, and this applies to floor ties as well as suspension. 

Disclose any relevant health conditions, injuries, or limitations to your tying partner before a scene. 

Use your judgment and remove yourself from any situation that feels unsafe or uncomfortable.  Ask the organisers if you need support at any time. 

You are responsible for the safety and integrity of any personal equipment you bring and use at Nexus Rope. Ensure your ropes, carabiners, rings, and other gear are in good condition and suitable for your intended use. Ensure you have a suitable rope cutting tool close at hand.

Before using any of the studio’s rigging points, hard points, or equipment, you must personally inspect and satisfy yourself of its safety and appropriateness for your scene. Do not rely solely on others’ previous use or assurances.  This is particularly true of bamboos, where the height may have been adjusted by previous users, or the venue slings and karabiners which people routinely clip equipment in and out of.   

Only engage in rope activities that you have sufficient knowledge, skill, and experience to perform safely. It is your responsibility to acquire proper instruction and practice before attempting new or complex techniques.  We will not teach how to use the Hashira columns. If you are used to rigging on a ring and want to use a bamboo, please ask and we can show you the difference in lock off.  

Riggers must always prioritise their bottom’s safety, particularly when it comes to protecting their head and neck.  For example, if your bottom is standing with arms bound, ensure that your body or an upline is positioned to prevent their head from hitting the floor in case of a fall or loss of balance. Never rely solely on the bottom’s own balance to protect against serious injury.  

Communicate openly with your rope partner about any physical or emotional concerns that arise during a scene.

Do not attend Nexus Rope events if you have any communicable illnesses to prevent spreading infection. 

Cover any open wounds and refrain from tying with an active skin condition that could spread to others or risk infection to yourself. 

Keep bodily fluids, including saliva, to yourself and your own equipment.  If you do have any issues, please speak to an organiser and use the spray/wipes provided. 

Rope borrowed from the studio must not be used on the mouth, eyes or crotch.

All individuals must be treated with respect, regardless of gender, sexual orientation, body type, race, experience level, or any other characteristic. Discrimination or harassment will not be tolerated. 

No one should make assumptions about anyone else’s abilities, desires, or limits based on appearance. 

Respect everyone’s autonomy in choosing who to tie with. Pressuring or coercion is unacceptable – enthusiastic consent is the key. 

Refrain from offering unsolicited critique, commentary, or instruction on others’ rope scenes or techniques, unless explicitly asked for feedback.  

Respect that each rope partnership is unique and may practice differently than you. There is no one “right” way to do rope. 

If you have concerns about the safety of a scene, bring it to the attention of a Nexus Rope team member discreetly, rather than intervening directly or commenting publicly. 

Remember that everyone is on their own learning journey. Foster an environment of support and encouragement, not judgment or competition. 

Be mindful of the mood and energy of those tying around you, and strive to maintain a respectful and harmonious atmosphere in the shared studio space. 

If you intend to have a loud, energetic, or intense scene, choose an area of the studio where you’re less likely to disrupt quieter, more sensual scenes. Conversely, if you plan a quiet, intimate scene, avoid setting up directly next to a high-energy scene in progress.  

Respect others’ space and privacy. If a scene appears to be private or intimate, give them plenty of room and avoid staring or interrupting.

Please share any feedback you have with us either via the feedback form on this website, or via private message on Fetlife.  We will respond within a few days, and if we cannot immediately let you know what we will do in response to your feedback we will let you know our proposed strategy and timescale for responding.

If you need to report anything at an event, please do so to one of the event organisers.  We will respond using this Traffic Light Feedback Response System.

Respect the privacy of all attendees. Do not share personal information about others without their explicit consent. 

What happens at Nexus Rope stays at Nexus Rope. Do not gossip or share details of others’ rope scenes or personal lives outside the studio. 

You must only take photos of people who have given you their explicit consent, regardless of whether you believe them to be recognisable or not (including through digital blurring).  You must not get anyone else’s body in the photo who hasn’t consented.  

Please keep phone usage to a minimum.  If you need to message, browse or take a phone call please leave the studio (including the social area).  You can take a quick photo (following the rules above), check the time or look up a tutorial or notes etc, but should try and keep the phone down rather than camera waving around the room when you do those things.